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why are boys treated more fairly acordin 2girls
Posted by nazmeen on Thursday, July 26, 2007

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Why do ve girls have to listen to every thing our parents say specialy our dads and brothers all our life till v get marrid we ask them if we can go out if we can stay round our friends or we can go on a school trip etc etc etc and then one day we get we find love and we wanna get marrid to that person bcoz we feel the lukiest women on earth that time and want to be happy for the first time in life, we thank allah for every thing because sme ppl dnt even gt that but our dads or brothers decide some thing reall different for us, we then get marrid for the sake of family honour. we dnt do ny thing against our parents... when v have sacrifieced every thing for them they still dnt appreciate that and then finaly after our marridge we think v gonna get our freedom but y do we have to listen to wht our husband and his parents says y cnt ve do what v want y do men have to treat us like peace of s*1t and ruin our lifes and make us do things v dnt want to... y dnt they do wt v say y cant they stay hme when v want them to stay y dnt boys nower days get mature enough to make their own decisions y dnt they leave there parents when they get marrid y dont they treat there wife the way they shud why do our parents become so strict that you cant be happy for your sake but have to be for there sake.... y does all this emotional black mail happend can some one plzzzzzzzzzz explain this to me i wud be very gratefull if i can have the answer to this coz im suffocating deep inside coz i wanna know so plllzzzzzzzz pleasee tell me this..... wy do our parents start to be strict on gals then boys y do they say never mind when the boys make bad enough mistakes and then they say ok thats it ur bak of to pakistan to get marrid even if they c us talking a stranger of the rd who is just asking for directions.... i know our religion is very strict for not trying to insult that i appreciate the fact lekin y do our parents not treat girls fairly why dnt they let the daughter do what she wants but they can allow a son to stay out reall late and go dance with other gals y dnt our parents understand we want to live swell oh plzzzz help me i dnt understand this plz brothers and sisters help me

 
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