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In love, so in love!
Posted by Fardaus on Friday, July 27, 2007

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Asalaamu Alaykum everyone

I am a very young girl who is interested in getting either an MLS degree or instead of getting into the program to get married. now most people think im crazy saying "your too younggg...." and all that stuff. but me i feel marriage will be more purer for me, also safer instead of getting into the mess of dating and crap like that. My mother says i should get a degree first, but my heart feels it cant hold on. Like i feel im very vulnerable to anything. And now i found a man who is admirable, successful and a pratising muslim. Ive direclty spoken to him about marriage and he says he is humbled, flatterred and to be honest he has a "total loss of words" like what does he mean by that? ok he says marriage was his top priority a couple months back but no he has some business endeavors to complete and he has put off marriage for awhile. brothers and sisters , should i still have hope to have him? and what does it mean if he is humbled by my asking to be with him, like, what do you think? He is acting as if i deserve a man " better than he is in every aspect" and as if he is better than me, when in reality i think he is too pious for me. Sisters and bros. what are your opinions..

Jazakallah Khayr!

 
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In love, so in love! - Fardaus - Friday, July 27, 2007- ( 29 )
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--- Re:In love, so in love! - aishainpink - Friday, July 27, 2007
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------------ Re:In love, so in love! - arabprincess - Sunday, August 05, 2007
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--------------- FARDAUS!!! - STARSSHINE - Wednesday, August 08, 2007 - ( 1 )
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