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NEED A VERY SERIOUS opinion on this issue,polease muslim bros n sisters ,reply
Posted by STARSSHINE on Wednesday, August 08, 2007

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but my herat keeps on saying to me thta i shudnt propose that person cos that doesnt seem like aright thing.
i dunt know i ws never like this soprt of aperson since i started islam i wonder how did i coem to only find him a bit good and thats onl;y becos his religon,he is MashaAllah very pious.well i hav only tlaked to hk on net and we calle ach other brother n sister and sumtimes he becoes like my real islamic brother at other times i feel a bit different abt him.im myself so confused.i emna i know its hram in islam, to talk to na mehrams and i used to follow strict pardaha slo ,.its bin only 6 or 7 days that i and that person ahv bin tl;kaing sis.
he told me that he doesnt really ahve any friends and its impossible for him tot lka tpo females.
i wunder why si e atlkig to me.
i ahd added him to discuss sumthing reliigous and i tolfd him yesterday that i wud d elet him after i get thru it and to whihc he said im also tlkaing to u for Allah swt's sake.
then ia ske dhi after a bit more converastion that why are u tlaking to me to whihc he said AllAH HU AALAM.
i feel that mayb Allah has decided it for me to marry him,i emna i dutnnknow or whter its thi that its fitna and Allah is testing memwhetehr i remain staedfats in it or not.
please people pray for me,his hometown is karchi but hes in autralia ,tell em what to do?
why dutn we ad each other n discuss it with each ohtewr.
and if any other sis wnats to suggest sumthing then please do.
i also asked him thru the mail that i ahve aproposal for him afor a reliigous minded girl in karachi just wnated to be sure whther he ahs any plans of getting married or not to whihc he siad that he hasnt thopught abt ti but he'll see to it or sumting lke that on his next visit to pakistan.

please peple pray for me ,theres a shaitaani call n theres a call of Allah who's cal;ling me towards Himself.

 
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